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IS REVENGE WORTH IT?

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There is no person that can boldly say that he or she have not been hurt or wronged by the people they care so much about such as siblings, romantic partners, friends or even total strangers. We have all been hurt at one point or another but coping with the feeling that results from it can be overwhelming. We are always caught in between forgiving or planning a revenge and we sometimes choose the one that we feel is best based on how intensely we were wronged.

Forgiveness is not something that is easy to do. Even people who have the softest of hearts often have a difficult time forgiving people. There is no doubt that we are aware of the benefits of forgiving someone, not for their own good, but for ourselves, but we still find it difficult to let go. We often think of inflicting the same pain that have been inflicted on us on the person as a way of healing faster but it is not the best.

You have only succeeded in giving the negative thoughts that you harbor in your mind and the person who hurt you the control over you and your emotions if all you are thinking of is planning a revenge. Your revenge may not occur instantly. It may take a few days, weeks, months or even years. This mean you'd not heal until after months of executing your revenge? This is a great hiderance to your overall well-being. It is better to forgive and let go rather than taking the stress of getting a revenge. You may make every attempt to get your revenge and it may not be possible especially when the person is remorseful and have asked for your forgiveness.

There is no human that is perfect and no matter how hurt you are it may be impossible to turn back the hands of time, so it is better to let love reign rather than intentionally strategising the downfall of your fellow human. I was just seeing in the news last night that some herders killed a Driver and his conductor (the man who receives fares and notify passengers of their bus stop) because the driver hit their cow and died. This is an issue that could have been settled amicably without shedding blood. The best solution would have been to ask for compensation. So many good things have been destroyed in the world due to the need to get revenge and it should not be encouraged.
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No matter the situation let love always reign. Love have the power to turn things around. It has the ability to heal you faster than you can ever imagine. When you give love chance, it can turn an ugly and life-threatening situation into a beautiful and exciting one. There are times when dialogue is the answer to some crisis. All that is needed is for people to come together and discuss the way forward instead of resulting to violence. There are couples who have got into fights or arguments and end up harming themselves because they could not settle the issue with love.

Meanwhile, love does not mean you should give yourself up to be a victim every time. There may be a constant repitition of the act when the person discovers that you have a forgiving heart. Even though you forgive the person, it may be best to stay away from them if their actions is life threatening and you can't bear it anymore. This does not mean that you have not forgiven them but you are just trying to stay safe.

Bear in mind that you have also wronged and hurt people as well, even though it may be intentional or unintentional. Will you feel good to know that the person is planning to hurt you back? We all make mistakes in life and we should be ready to learn from every of life's lesson and move on. There will be no safe place in the world if everyone is constantly plotting revenge against everyone that hurt them. Revenge will be our major occupation if that's the case because we offend ourselves every seconds of the day.

Thank you for your time lovelies.
The post is originally written by me πŸ’•@debbie-eseπŸ’•

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