Loss is definitely something that is easy for all of us. Anything you lose leaves a trace in you so that you will continue to suffer after losing that thing. It may not be dear to you or important to you, but you just feel the bitterness of loss, because man by nature does not like to change his situation a lot, and this is the nature All living beings that seek to survive, so what they have to do is to preserve their life, and if they are in a stable and stable situation that guarantees their survival, they do not like to change it.
So if someone tells you that you have to change because you are bad or because you are doing a bad habit, then you get bored of something and do not like to do this even though it may be in your best interest.
So why does a person not like to lose or lose something and find it bitter in taste, because as I mentioned the internal instinct of man pushes him to do so, but since we are beings that possess a mind, judgment by reason and logic is the fairest thing.
Does every loss have a bitter taste?
By judging by logic and reason, the answer is no, not always. Losing is bad, even if you wish to win or win, because sometimes you learn from loss what you cannot learn from success.
I will give you an example. If you are a football player or coach and you manipulate teams in the local league and you win all the matches, then you play the match against relatively weaker teams and you win with the same plan in every match. Then you have to manipulate an international team and lose. Yes, losing is a difficult thing, but you have not lost before So you will not learn if you do not lose or make mistakes.
The same applies to scientists. If you lose this round and your experiment on which you are based and working on does not succeed, then you will try to learn and realize more and do more experiments, which will make you succeed the next time.
And if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend and you lose, you will be stronger with the following shocks, and as they say, the hits make you stronger and more perceptive.
Finally, loss, no matter how bitter, is one of the stations on the road to success and victory, so you must learn how to bear the bitter taste in order to get the sweet taste.
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