There were four friends. They were classmates. They planned to study together one day. They decided that they would all study carefully. They will not talk to each other. They light a candle in their room. This candle will keep reminding them that all they have to do is pay attention to their studies. After they started studying, they were startled by a sudden gust of wind, and the dimness of the candles stopped. Promised to speak. He remained silent for a while. Then he said, "I did not speak. There was a different reason for the students to speak.

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He made the three of them realize their mistake, which they could not do even by speaking, which we have to be ashamed of in front of most people without thinking and speaking unnecessarily. A sensible person never gives advice to anyone without asking. Advice without asking has no meaning. It doesn't matter. Everyone is walking around with a box of advice on their head. They pile up and do this. By giving advice, we suffocate in the nose of the next servant.

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There is no expert greater than us. In 99% of cases, when people are sharing their problems with you, they are not happy with us. They want to hear, but they only want to listen to what they have to say and it will lighten the burden on their heart. They just want to share their grief with you. Most people know for themselves what is right and what is wrong. Those who are not giving advice, those who are providing solutions, they already know, so the next time Even if someone shares their problem with you, just listen to them attentively and give them some advice of their own until they ask you for some advice.

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Don't try because the person in front of us just goes so far that we listen to his words carefully and understand that he needs a servant for his sorrow and trouble because no one will listen to him, everyone will just sing to him. Has said very nicely that advice should not be given until the name is mentioned, it should be read and said that silence does not harm me as much as our words do harm and you must have heard that as much as we They speak less and become wiser and vice versa.
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