Greetings everyone in homeedders community. Is a privilege to be here this afternoon. When I returned from school I felt I should post something here today. Though I was tire and helpless due to my health condition. I just sum up strength to post.
Before I go into the main discussion of the day. I believe family issue is being discussed here apart from Homeschooling Children lesson.
I am a young girl who is not married but I can tell the experience mothers faced raising children, it is not an easy task, friends especially mothers. At times, I would sit and bestow on it. Is this what I will face when I enter that school(marriage/motherhood)?
Well, I didn't shrub nor utter wrong words, I accept the responsibility because this is what will make me to be a mother.
I am saying this because I have been with different mothers, whom have shared their difficulties, mess, pains, stress, anger and otherwise. Mothers you know how Children behaviors starting from cradle. So I say it has always been God's Mercy upon mothers.
Okay, now into the business of the day!
Yesterday i happened to visit my daddy in Lord. As I reach the house I saw him with his son, I asked of the mother he told me that she went to work. I straight my hand to carry the baby, the boy refuse to follow me.
After some times the boy wanted to cry, the father called me and sent me on an errand of buying snacks.
As the baby was eating the snacks, he doze off.
The father clean him up and cuddle him to sleep by walking around the compound.
Moving around with the child, he slept and he took him to the house.
After sometimes resting in the parlour, he took him to the room to keep him.
This man took his responsibility as a father. Showing his fatherhood response.
It was a nice one, seeing him treat the child with care just as the mother would, if she was around.
All through my stay with this man, I didn't see him phoning the wife to come back from the office and take care of his son. Upon all the disturbance, crying, scattering things around, the man didn't care. He took every responsibility for the child to be fine.
In 49minute time the child awoke and started playing around.
To me I say, this is joyful experience to be a father. There are men out there looking for this gift but it has not yet come. This man having this wonderful gift (child) he doesn't take it for granted. He received it with care and happiness.
Therefore, for a man or husband to suspend other things to care for his Son at home when the mother is not there. Such man understands what it means to be a father. Being a father is not just paying your children school fees, there are other responsibilities you need to showcase not living it for the woman.
If a woman is awake breastfeeding the child I think the husband should also be awake, if woman is pregnant with a child with pains, crying, torment I think a man should also face it as well because both agreed to be one. So you must be 'ONE' in everything no matter how it may be.
This is a teaching to other men out there who are not ready to take up there responsibilities as father.
There is one thing, I want men to know. If a man feel less for his children you have instill that mentality to your children. What your children grow up seeing you doing in life automatically there will also grow up with this knowledge.
You can teach your children how to write but character, attitude, behavior exhibited by parents is very important in children's life.
This is a true Fatherhood Experience
Thank you for reading my blog. Remain blessed and Happy New week
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